Suffering the loss of someone we love can be the most difficult thing in life to deal with One moment we have them and the next theyre gone What are we supposed to do How are we supposed to feel The truth is theres no certain way were supposed to feel Whatever were feeling its okay Its okay to feel shock anger denial or whatever we may feel Its okay And if we dont feel anything at all thats okay too Its okay to have no answers and no explanations Because sometimes all the reasoning and comforting words in the world just arent what we need What might help us however is to understand how Jesus dealt with this kind of loss